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BDSM Glossary

Consensual Non-Consent (CNC). is concept a nuanced agreement between parties where consent appears to be waived, yet it's given beforehand for certain actions or scenarios. Here's how it works: within the BDSM dynamic, the dominant partner retains the discretion to continue with any action or activity, even if the submissive would have otherwise indicated a desire to withdraw consent. This dynamic can add an intense layer of psychological and emotional stimulation to scenes, as the submissive relinquishes control and surrenders to the whims of their dominant partner. Consensual Non-Consent often involves scenarios where the submissive is placed in vulnerable or challenging situations, testing their limits and boundaries in a controlled environment. It's essential to establish clear communication, trust, and mutual respect between partners before engaging in CNC play to ensure that both parties understand and consent to the dynamics at play. While Consensual Non-Consent may seem paradoxical, it's a carefully negotiated agreement that allows participants to explore power dynamics, surrender, and trust in a consensual and controlled manner. By embracing this dynamic, individuals can experience intense sensations of vulnerability, arousal, and connection, ultimately deepening their bond within the BDSM relationship dynamic. So, if you're intrigued by the psychological complexities and thrilling dynamics of CNC, dive in with an open mind and a willingness to explore the boundaries of desire and consent.

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GODDESSRED777
Bournemouth

I am your Mistress - strict and sensual

I seek perfection and demand strict obedient at all times. I am confident, talented, caring and fun loving. I am an elite, offering a unique, personal experience, specializing in sensual and long term

bellamodell619
Bournemouth

Looking for a hot time and some filthy pictures& videos of DP, masturbation, coc..

Part time model  stoner and a kinky bitch  I also used to be a gymnast so I’m VERY flexible

strawberrykisses194
Bournemouth

Hot 25 year old looking to have some fun

Pansexual and looking for some fun x
I'm also an OF creator, so would love to meet some people to make some goood content with

bellari149
Bournemouth

Here to explore something new, can you be my teacher?

I change my hair colour a lot, I'm looking for someone to help me learn how to be. I'm new so want to test my boundaries.

em2021unibj
Bournemouth

Hi im a very young 46 year old Im bisexual, im looking for a bit of fun, I love ..

I can be quite shy at first im not used to being on dating site etc but after a little while im sure we will have lots of fun

Meowmeow29
Bournemouth

I want to actually taste the rainbow....

I like pussy.... cats. I am also a coffee addict (yes really I am) and a chocoholic but who isn't!?

aar698
Bournemouth

I am very small and Im looking for a dom

I enjoy boxing, listening to music, eating food. I can handle pain

jolly286
Bournemouth

Old men creampies old man with

Creampie spunk deep cock old men old man xx xx xx x

jess4862
Bournemouth

This is my first time on something like this, I am completely new to the BDSM cl..

I enjoy activities that gets my adrenaline pumping, and hopefully one those activities are you ;)

poppylylaa
Bournemouth

young dom, wanting to find an old sub

i’m 20, 5’’8 and love being in control of other people

natashawilkin663
Bournemouth

very new to this can u teach me

someone who can show me this lifestyle been thinking about it long time just didnt know were to start

amberdoll114
Bournemouth

Looking to explore my submissive side on a regular basis and gain experience.

The ideal is the daddy dom who isn't afraid to punish.

Hhau291
Bournemouth

A BDSM beginner, that are a sub and want to experiment with BDSM!

Very flexible and I love a lot of my pain with my pleasure. If you are in a relationship or married and trying to cheat do not message me. I hate people who cheat.

Bellalavita
Bournemouth

I want to feel excited and in return I will reward you Cum and fulfil my needs

I am strict & empowering. I will make you do as I ask

natashawilkin928
Bournemouth

Am very very new to this scene but always wanted to try it

I have always been interested in bdsm but none of my ex partners has so looking for someone to teach me

PurpleDaisy3
Bournemouth

Single BBW female 58yrs looking to enjoy safe fun with Males, females and couple..

I’m kind, caring,  very tactile and responsive.  I’m discreet and expect the same in return.

Lisa051
Bournemouth

Hi Im a newbie, like to meet and have some fun.

Looking for sex on tap, with spice, fun and flockics

oly012
Bournemouth

Very passionate and Ive always been horny at least since I can remember. Absolu..

I'm looking for an enthusiastic and spontaneous partner that enjoys sex as much as I do... I do have certain boundaries but I would like to explore a bit more

mjh583
Bournemouth

Hi New to site, some experience want to try more now I have the taste

Looking for a mature dominant guy or couple to show me the way when safe to do so

mrshai892
Bournemouth

I was in a boring (in the bedroom) marriage! I am free and want to explore.

Hi,
I am looking to explore outside the bedroom. I am interested new experiences, sex parties, threesomes etc

CreamPieess
Bournemouth

I wanna do bad things to you babe

The art of seduction is knowing what she really wants and slowly giving it to her in a way that takes her breath away.

brenken170
Bournemouth

The blacker the berry the sweeter the juice

Very attractive sexy black lady would love to meet a romantic older gentleman. For romantic sexy fun times.

evilt339
Bournemouth

Newly accepting Im a submissive

Someone to bring out my submissive side without being scarily dominant

FallenAngel2303
Bournemouth

BBW x fun and Heart of Gold x Had fun at j2 many moons ago would like to come b..

love being a part time Security/Bouncer x
Some down to earth people that just want to relax and have fun x

little41
Bournemouth

Hi new to this looking for someone to show me what is like to be with a woman

Hi I’m 41 in a relationship bored with the day to day stuff no intimacy at home and no sex looking for some fun

PurpleGiraffe101
Bournemouth

Looking for genuine, kind, affectionate people

I’m looking to make friends and have regular fun with genuine people.
I am a kind, warm, honest, affectionate, person looking for the same. A sense of humour is essential. Discretion given and expected in return.
I miss affection, hugs and snuggling. I need someone who can take the lead.  I am a BBW size 26/28 so if that’s not your type then please scroll on by. I’m not looking for sex chats or meaningless ONS, although happy to chat for a while, I’d rather meet for a social first to see if we have a mutual connection.

To save wasting mine and your time, please note …….
You must be able to accommodate as I have young adults still living at home.
I do not want to meet smokers,  also If you are under 35, live more than one hour away or are married/in a relationship.then I am really not interested and will not respond.

Thank you for taking the time to read my profile and if you are interested, then I would love to hear from you x

sandywin067
Bournemouth

looking for a dom and new experiences

I am a fun and outgoing creative type. I want to explore the BDSM world.

jl1950
Bournemouth

Mature lady with a high sex drive.

I am fit, I dance and play sports. I like a dominant man. No smokers.

jsl50
Bournemouth

Mature lady with a high sex drive.

I'm 5' 1", slim and fit. I play sports and I dance. I prefer educated men who can spell and have a dominant streak. Oh, and definitely no smokers!

By the way, I am 71, not 50, as some guys have been assuming.

samanthaeye806
Bournemouth

I have had a varied sex life but I have always fantasised about being dominated

I'm not inexperienced but I am new to bdsm I have had people try but I want someone who know what there doing x