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BDSM Edinburgh

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BDSM Glossary

Financial domination, also known as Findom, is a unique aspect of BDSM where the exchange of power is intertwined with financial control. In this dynamic, a submissive individual, often referred to as a 'money slave,' willingly relinquishes control over their finances to a dominant partner, known as a 'financial dominatrix' or 'money mistress/master.' The submissive derives pleasure from the act of giving gifts, money, or financial resources to their dominant partner, who takes on the role of ultimate authority over their finances. The power dynamics in financial domination revolve around the submissive's financial servitude and the dominant's control and exploitation of their financial resources. The submissive finds gratification in surrendering their financial autonomy, experiencing arousal and fulfillment from the act of financial submission. Financial domination can take various forms, ranging from the submissive providing gifts and tributes to their dominant partner to more extreme practices such as financial blackmail, where the dominant coerces the submissive into providing financial resources under the threat of exposure or consequences. While financial domination may seem unconventional to some, it is a consensual exchange of power and control that fulfills the desires and fantasies of both parties involved. It requires clear communication, trust, and understanding of boundaries to ensure a safe and mutually satisfying experience for all participants. Ultimately, financial domination is about the exchange of power, control, and erotic gratification through the dynamics of financial servitude and domination. It offers a unique avenue for exploring dominance and submission within the realm of BDSM, where the transfer of wealth becomes a symbol of obedience, devotion, and submission.

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DawQ
Edinburgh

be bold to take a step, you could be the luckiest

just a simple and wild lady here who prefer to say less and act more

Goddess Campbell laura
Edinburgh

Looking for sissy to explore the captivating world of domination in And explore ..

I’m a Trained Dominat mistress willing to explore and dominate a lucky humble dedication sissy explore a world of exquisite dominance and thrilling new limits. Prepare to embark on an unforgettable journey full of self-discovery, exploration, personal growth, trust and empowerment. Step through the doors of My Seattle BDSM Dungeon and bask in the glory of submission and pleasure. Dare to fulfill your most provocative fantasies under My authoritative guidance. Come, now is the time to reveal your true self within this amazing space.

NoviceSubx
Edinburgh

Im 33 years old, living in the Edinburgh region.

I'm 33 years old, living in the Edinburgh region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 32 and 50.
I'm White / Caucasian with a Average body shape Light brown hair
I drink socially I don't smoke

Littleone9109
Edinburgh

Im 32 years old, living in the Edinburgh region.

I'm 32 years old, living in the Edinburgh region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 33 and 47.
I'm White / Caucasian with a Petite body shape Blonde hair
I drink socially I don't smoke

LadyyAstruds
Edinburgh

Okay, Im only here to seek a subs who is interested to obey me.

I will smile as I degrade and humiliate you, grovelling at my feet; or I can tease and taunt you whilst I assert my supreme authority over you. It all comes so naturally to me as you will find out. So don't even try to message Me if you are not here to obey ME

Mistress_Ana
Edinburgh

Hey everyone…I’m a dominate woman looking for a submissive/siss y slut….

Let share our kinks..Dominate woman seeking for a loyalty sissy/sub

Toohotmistresschela
Edinburgh

you care for a chat and get to know each other more better? Cool and nice to cha..

I want Someone calm both inside and outside, honest, loving, caring, trustworthy, hardworking, God fearing, kind, romantic, passionate, loving, generous and respect. Some one who I have trust, honesty and faith in him.

Angelinacrad
Edinburgh

I’m Angelina, and I’m here to have fun, I sure would make our experience memorab..

I’m not here for games……. I’ll bring to life your wildest fantasies, you wanna know how? Hit me up and let’s get freaky

QFS2023
Edinburgh

I am a professionally trained Lady and highly experienced

I love to push your boundaries. With me you can let your fantasies run free. I am very playful though and will most certainly enjoy with you. I will guide you through an world of temptation, anticipation, desire and pleasure

missyanny
Edinburgh

Disciplinarian and bondage mistress. Dominant lady you wouldn’t want to cross.

A mature dominant lady who’s demanding, intolerant and sometimes I can be an utter bitch.
Don’t come to me with false desires. Once you click you’re hooked.

welsh2721
Edinburgh

I am looking for a longterm relationship with a Dom.

Honestly don't know what to say, ask anything you want.

Joanneandjack
Edinburgh

Just looking for swingers clubs

We like group sex
Interested in new things
Open to suggestions

emmascotland
Edinburgh

Hi guys just looking for anything, let me know what you’re up for if you’re inte..

I’m a dirty bitch. I’m looking to have amazing sex.

Newsubedinburgh
Edinburgh

Im a naughty sub looking for my dom

Come talk to me and find out. I might be just what you're after. Age limit is about 35 no 'very experienced' excuses

vidas027
Edinburgh

Hello I m new here looking for love

My name is Mary and I m 34 years old and I m living in Scotland  and I m here to look for a man to spend the rest of my life with

laurieEdinburgh
Edinburgh

single girl edinburgh, 27 looking

horny, open, accomodating, like oral, like sex, like men

LittleElfWanders
Edinburgh

Im a new inexperienced petite girl with loads to learn. Im asexual but Im ope..

I'm looking for someone patient, who's willing to take the time to explore something that used to scare me. I'm hoping for a healthy, safe journey.

chloeren362
Edinburgh

Got much more theory than practical.

I'm a bit of a crazy cat lady hermit. Kind of new to the whole tinder thing, let alone this kind of site but kink has always fascinated and appealed to me. Like the headline says I don't have much in the way of practical experience but wanting to change that. I'd say I'm mostly a sub but could be a bit dom if I tried. I think once I'd ge into things, I could be a bit of a bratty sub. Who knows? I also have chronic pain issues so I've always wondered: would kink induced pain distract/help with my 'usual' pain? Also got a bit of Chonk if you are or aren't into that.

smuud723
Edinburgh

BBW, curvy, full figured, voluptuous - whatever your preferred description, that..

Im still relatively new to the world of kink and rather inexperienced, but not naive.  Please don't confuse them, I may be the former but I'm definitely not the latter.  Ideally im looking to find a connection with someone single who is open to the possibility of something progressing to being ultimately exclusive, dare I say monogamous, to explore my desires with, indulge my curiosities and expand my experiences.

I have no interest in anyone married, or who has a significant other.  I also have no interest in anything poly, hooks ups, FWBs, ONS, or random play partners.  Those situations simply don't work for me.

cocole966
Edinburgh

Dominatrix looking for a little sissy to own. Prefer to be referred as Mistress ..

Tall, big hands, big feet, open to most things ————

diannesc659
Edinburgh

Im looking to try new experiences my fantasy is to have a threesome

I'm quite a shy person but I'm definitely up for trying this

jacquelinebro523
Edinburgh

I wanna fuck real hard and fast

I love trying out new things in the bedroom and I love being in pain

MarquiseEIII
Edinburgh

A pleasure for erotic pain with discipline and intellectual discussion

The best way to discover what is interesting in me is to have the first meeting. So handsome and smart gentlemen you can contact me.

PunisherGoddessx
Edinburgh

Im just looking for someone who can satisfy my desires then see where all this ..

If you're interested, please DM me with a way to get contact with you. I'm looking forward to hear from you! x

kayleighbaby2007
Edinburgh

Visiting Student hoping to gain great memories in my time in edinburgh!

Moved to scotland from London 4 Years ago. I have recently moved into a flat in edinburgh where i live with a friend. I previously stayed in st. andrews. Open minded and looking to be shown new ways!

Hadarthekitten
Edinburgh

Im a secret, you crave to discover.

Just a girl looking to have a chat and see where it goes. My name's Heather, but my friends call me Heatherkins. I'm 29, and currently training to become a full time registered nurse. Im a happy, witty, and bubbly character. But can also be really sassy! I enjoy ready, writing poetry and gaming on my pc with my friends! If you like to talk, hit me up! I don't bite unless of course...you ask

dreamychlo
Edinburgh

A University student looking for someone to care for them

I'm looking for someone to care for me and my needs. I love quality time and affection. I'm just a girl who adores anything pink, cute or sparkly!

Hibslass
Edinburgh

Experienced sub back to play some games

Keen to please and eager to learn more things! I love pleasing and being controlled. You can give the body but who is brave enough to take the mind.  I enjoy all forms of punishment from flogging to being suspended.  I don't disappoint that is a guarantee

Skye84
Edinburgh

Old fashioned romance wanted =

I’m a wear my heart on my sleeve kinda person, looking for a soul connection with someone cute!

louisebr769
Edinburgh

Taking my first tentative steps into bdsm, I know what I think I like, but who r..

Honestly, I haven't got a clue what I'm looking for, that's probs a huge turn off for experienced guys, but... Sorry sir

mastertiff565
Edinburgh

Want to try to find virtual relationship

Like to explore many different things, most likely domination

caitlinbe398
Edinburgh

Im cat Im 19 and Im looking for more experience in cnc and other kinks simila..

Chat and build trust and possibly fulfill fantasies

Meganmxx
Edinburgh

Very open minded ;) very happy to have some strange experiences

I’m 22, looking or someone to spoil me I’ll keep this nice and simple x

Littleminnie7
Edinburgh

new little submissive ready to learn , looking for a dominant and confident man ..

Never done this before but love being a good girl and want to be trained to obey , student nurse that needs a dominant man to take control all the time, just want to sit their and look pretty and do what I’m told x my stuffies name is tubbs <3

nessymcmil957
Edinburgh

Im new to the scene and looking to try some new things..

I'm looking for a dominant, someone who's still respectful and who knows exactly what they want

Polymnia
Edinburgh

Submissive sassy, a little bratty but we know thats just a disguise for desirin..

Looking for fun and flirty friends, the delight in getting to know someone's desires

sarahclark192
Edinburgh

I’ve always been different to the average person. I crave something deeper and m..

Not interested in married men or poly relationships.

I wish to have a long term arrangement with genuine Dom’s only.

phoebehoulis024
Edinburgh

just lookin for somebody to buy me new tiddies then you can do what you want to ..

you need to have dominance and money nd love for my new boobs

emmy1212
Edinburgh

Sub looking for a master or mistress. Love being punished and humiliated in publ..

I want to find a girl to eat out and dominate me, as well as a master. Im  Bi

jube92
Edinburgh

Do you want to be my first dom? Ive never tried being a sub before

I'm willing to try a lot of things as least once to see if I like them.

It can be hard to get me to relax enough to enjoy myself so I would need someone who is very skilled at what they are doing.
If you think you have what it takes, send me a message.

Chloeren522
Edinburgh

More theory than practical. :)

Always had a bit of a fascination with kink/BDSM. Also want to test a theory. Theory being : if I have chronic pain, will BDSM induced pain distract my brain from my 'normal' kind?

Mostly submissive but not 100%, could be a bit dom if I tried.

Wanna tie me up? There's a decent amount of me so you may need more rope.

Zoes538
Edinburgh

Bubbly girl looking for fun. Just want to explore the world of sex and do thing..

Hey I’m a bubbly sexy 30 year old who is ready by to explore the world of swinging, meet new people and have fun

CookieSwirls
Edinburgh

Pretty, petite, clean, sweet, freak.

Wouldn’t mind making friends & going on fun adventures. Love to chill with a peaceful vibe.
Not looking for hookups, more of a serious relationship kind of person. Though, I’m not rushing into that either.

{Will also be accepting applications for a sugar daddy}

MistressSteff
Edinburgh

I can build you up and ruin you at the same time

Im a 28 year old findom/femdom based near Edinburgh. Looking for subs/paypigs only, no timewasters please. Only interested in your wallet

mullerl365
Edinburgh

Young Bi woman looking for a long term relationship.

Looking for someone to be in a long term relationship and like having lots of kinky fun.

laurenn2
Edinburgh

bi curious female looking for fun x

Looking for fun males or female. Lockdown is boring

robynm173
Edinburgh

Looking for a pay pig to drain

A fun young woman with a dominant side that requires a good little pig

DarcyxDiamond
Edinburgh

Dating me is like winning the lottery,

Loyal, Easy going outspoken, honest, Adventurous, Fun,

NewSub994
Edinburgh

Looking for a dom to use me as he sees fit but also a relationship

I haven't needed to use a safe word yet looking to find that limit

keiransmumhasgotitgoin417
Edinburgh

Cute yound sub looking for master to serve ☺️

Eager to find someone I can serve and give myself to

DungeonDragon
Edinburgh

Into BONDAGE, CHASTITY BELT, PEGGING, TOYS AND PADDLING

Someone brave to enter in my dungeon world... If you have souls let me drain it prove to me that you're useless.. I'll play you as my sex toy

mcf095
Edinburgh

Im totally submissive I need a strong dom

I work full time so can't be available all hours but while at work I will do as asked, I'll do anything inside or outside but within reason,
Please no couples or young ones I have my limits (anyone under 40 need not apply). Also no pussy cats don't do softly

lauraEdinburgh
Edinburgh

New to this but looking for someone to take control

I am looking for some one to dominate me. Tell me what to do, use toys, tie me up

zaraleelaid764
Edinburgh

New to this looking to experiment and find out what i like

Im looking to find a dom not sure what kind of dom yet

lm123Edinburgh
Edinburgh

Im married, but looking to explore my submissive side. I love face fucking, hair..

Relatively new to kink and looking to explore. Wanting a strong Dom to control me.

laurend69
Edinburgh

Scottish student for you daddy

I’m a Scottish student , 21 and curvy. Love older men

kimberleybr790
Edinburgh

Hi :) just here to see what’s happening around here :)

Want to know more about me - message and find out :)

muppet3318
Edinburgh

Bi sub slut seeking mf couple to use her holes and tits

Bi sub slut interested in having fun with a m/f couple, m/f group or m/m bi couple or vwh male.open minded and genuinely filthy slut who loves tit and cunt pain and having all her holes filled - fingers, toys, fists, cocks - you decide. Love to be used for others’ pleasure. I am here for S&M and rough sex, not for a bit of a fumble with a couple who want to play with a girl. If you contact me please let me know how you would use me and what experience you have so I know I am not wasting my time. Disease and drug free, Fully vaccinated. Sorry, can’t host and only looking for local

jacquelinebro382
Edinburgh

You guys wanna have fun I am ready for some hard rough sex

I like handcuffed or tied up gagged n whipped and fucked hard and rough I also like chokeing on dick

Bouncybunny21
Edinburgh

Looking for a spanking from my master

Small, cute perky bum love dressing up in anything xxxx

shanice2305
Edinburgh

Looking to sell feet pics . Videos can be requested

Just want to give people feet pics for small price . Videos and requests welcome

Becca015
Edinburgh

Hey, I’m Becca I’m from Edinburgh and I’m looking for some fun.

I’m looking for someone I can meet up with regularly if things work out.

lisaro306
Edinburgh

Looking for a male who likes his female to surrender

Glam natural beautiful busty needs a strict master for pleasure

LDN lass 101
Edinburgh

Beautiful , classy and intelligent submissive seeks Dom for fun, friendship pos..

Looking for someone with whom the sparks fly.  Connection, and chemistry is key for me.  There MUST be more than just the physical.

I’m looking for a long term arrangement with the right person.
Must be a gentleman otherwise I’m not interested.  
Also must be who is someone willing to go that extra mile to make a relationship good and ensure that all elements are fulfilling and catered for including good communication and friendship.
Respect is everything and all these things work both ways.

If u don’t walk the talk please don’t waste my time.

Genuine people only please!
Not looking for online stuff, just real meets.  
Please note I’m not into casual meets, NSA or hookups!  
Also if your ‘attached’ or ‘married’ please refrain from messaging me.  I don’t share.

lynnehis507
Edinburgh

I am a single lady with breasts full of yummy milk I like my V licked slow fast ..

Pure is pure and that’s my motto be who you are xxx

shell685
Edinburgh

Never know we’re to start here ,

I do burlesque chair dancing for fun and love to hike

IntrovertPerv895
Edinburgh

Intelligent and attractive woman here to play

Very open-minded, independent and friendly. I am bi-curious, an oral enthusiast into sensual and hard sex

Pailina
Edinburgh

Oh, my loverDont you know its all right?You can love herAnd you can love me at..

Happy, beautiful encounters, desire, sensual touch and talk

kezrobin017
Edinburgh

Just looking for some fun and excitement

Looking for a man who's not afraid to tell me what he wants me to do