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BDSM Glossary

Consensual Non-Consent (CNC). is concept a nuanced agreement between parties where consent appears to be waived, yet it's given beforehand for certain actions or scenarios. Here's how it works: within the BDSM dynamic, the dominant partner retains the discretion to continue with any action or activity, even if the submissive would have otherwise indicated a desire to withdraw consent. This dynamic can add an intense layer of psychological and emotional stimulation to scenes, as the submissive relinquishes control and surrenders to the whims of their dominant partner. Consensual Non-Consent often involves scenarios where the submissive is placed in vulnerable or challenging situations, testing their limits and boundaries in a controlled environment. It's essential to establish clear communication, trust, and mutual respect between partners before engaging in CNC play to ensure that both parties understand and consent to the dynamics at play. While Consensual Non-Consent may seem paradoxical, it's a carefully negotiated agreement that allows participants to explore power dynamics, surrender, and trust in a consensual and controlled manner. By embracing this dynamic, individuals can experience intense sensations of vulnerability, arousal, and connection, ultimately deepening their bond within the BDSM relationship dynamic. So, if you're intrigued by the psychological complexities and thrilling dynamics of CNC, dive in with an open mind and a willingness to explore the boundaries of desire and consent.

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Mistress Mary
Oxford

I train Men to become good and submissive in nature

Slide in and tell me more about yourself, you will be a good sissy slut for me

Sweet wet mistress
Oxford

Wet Sweetest pleasure mistress

A worthy and loyal sub is the best gift I can get ❤️

zoey26
Oxford

bi woman wants to play come on dont be shy!

hi all 27yr old bbw female looking to bring some fun into her life cant really accommodate maybe on occasions but will travel or go halves on a hotel im quite a shy person so looking for someone to bring me out of my shell and fill me with confidence hope to hear from you soon as i said before i am a bbw ( size 26-28) so if thts your thing then please get in touch

please note i am Not a premium member so please turn your filters off so i can reply thanks x

michc093
Oxford

‍♀️ Hey wanna explore try new things open to most things

I love going for meals walks get drunk and generally have fun

Elsbelsy
Oxford

(Add my snap - sexy.shexx) I’m looking for older people to hook up with I am bis..

Come use me :) do whatever you want and let me help

jennyjay272Balking
Oxford

Hi lonely lady looking for friends

Hi, i  would like to meet people for fun and frolics, not going to meet straight away.xx

earthangel84
Oxford

, primal, maso Likes daddydoms & alphas

like walks and coffee, busy mummy.
Cookies are a favourite.
Im a little mix, middle little brat, with a primal kitten side. And on rare occasions switch.
Looking for that connection, mind body soul, if you cant seduce my mind to submit then I won't.

Miss5ftfukall
Oxford

I am completely new to this world&very intrigued to explore myself..

I am looking for a dom but a respectful one that also cares.. and has patience because I am a bit of a brat!

caolamcma518
Oxford

Brat submissive looking for a serious dom that understands the kink world well

Looking for someone experienced, but caring with a good sense of humour

terrinorri949
Oxford

Looking for dominant who is willing to take on new submissive. I would like to e..

I'm new to this lifestyle so looking for some guidance

gre5800
Oxford

Every time I see a loving couple hand in hand, I wish it was me. I am an honest,..

I would surrender my whole life and soul to someone who can accept me for who I am, who I was and will be. Someone who will fill my life completely here on earth. Age difference does not matter to me. I believe that the love can never be old. I wish to meet a serious someone who bears good attitude, understanding, faithful, and honest person.

Veera888
Oxford

Exploring my senses looking for devils threesome. Sensuality required.

Curious, exploring and a little scared. Looking for someone a little more confident than me

doggingqueen2020
Oxford

Experienced dogging queen new to Oxford.

I've been dogging since my late teens and absolutely love it. I recently moved to Oxford so I want to find out where the best spots are. I enjoy most things including blowjobs, full sex and anal, and I like a crowd to keep me busy.

mollyrosestr437
Oxford

Pay me like one of your French girls.

Wanted- reliable sub who enjoys financial domination  ‍♀️

Sinthia21
Oxford

Hello Im simthia (not my real name)nice to meet you

I love anything that express creativity such as potter drawing painting  music and writing

freyaffly555
Oxford

looking for paypig/finsub/c ashcow maybe sugar daddies

I enjoy humiliating the weak and taking there money

lorraineblackw587
Oxford

Hit my naughty 40s and want to experiment

47 with the body of a 20yr old but the maturity of a cougar

terrinorri494
Oxford

I want someone who takes control, I want someone to own me. I want to experience..

I am looking for someone to guide and share new experiences with.

Ladyjayne21
Oxford

Newbie sub looking for dom xxx

Plus size newbie sub looking for a dom. I Can be bratty

hillyhe740
Oxford

you will be the perfect slut by the time ill be done with you .I will make u not..

looking for  sub beta guys who want to serve alpha guys

zenabe358
Oxford

Let goddess punish you and feel my pleasure

A witch that loves to be worshiped and likes to whip and make you take every inch

Bren672
Oxford

Looking for like minded people.

Am young at heart, hornry female, with a beautiful younger man, both of us looking for the right female to join us, to broaden our experience. Can you help FEMALES ONLY !!!
Happy to send pictures of us, on request.
I am bi, 46, he is a straight, 33 year old. Both single, but secure with each other.
PS Read profile  thanks

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