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24/7: A Relationship of Continuous Protocol In the realm of BDSM, the term '24/7' refers to a type of relationship dynamic where protocols and power exchanges are in place continuously, both inside and outside of scenes. Unlike traditional relationships, where roles may fluctuate or be limited to certain times or activities, a 24/7 BDSM relationship involves a constant exchange of power, with defined roles for each partner that extend beyond the bedroom. In a 24/7 BDSM relationship, the dominant partner typically maintains control over the submissive partner in various aspects of their life, including but not limited to household chores, decision-making, and even attire. This level of commitment and intensity requires a high degree of trust, communication, and compatibility between both parties. For those involved in a 24/7 BDSM dynamic, the power exchange is not just a sexual role-play; it is a way of life that permeates every aspect of their existence. It's about mutual understanding, respect, and fulfillment of each partner's needs and desires. Whether it's through rituals, protocols, or daily tasks, the power dynamics of a 24/7 relationship provide structure, guidance, and ultimately, a profound sense of connection and fulfillment for those involved.

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Petra
Southampton

I love to give pleasure that are imaginable and a man that’s totally submissive ..

I am a fun loving beautiful girl, looking to explore the world of so many possibilities, without hesitation

yolanda471
Southampton

Shoot your bullets at my face and cover me wit your ice cream

Bisexual locked in a lesbian marriage. Com and Free me!

aimeebe762
Southampton

Into stuffing/burps, sneezes, WS and role play.

I seem to attract a lot of time wasters! Please only message me if you are genuinely interested in my fetishes and want to meet!

sugarJaynee
Southampton

Hey daddy, are you looking for a young experience sugar baby?

I enjoy travelling and being treated like a queen!

I’d love a man who can give me attention!

Sauceysassy
Southampton

Horny lil minx wanting fun in Southampton and surrounding area

Horny 40 something wanting fun with like minded people

Sassy297
Southampton

Just want fun Genuine Honest Giving

Like to experiment
Try new things
Like to be taken
And to give

summer890
Southampton

Summer is my favourite season.

Curious to explore and add a bit of a thrill to my life.

Cramling639
Southampton

readyTo try New experiences with the right one

Erotic
Sexual
Unique
Just me
Giver
And ready
For you

Daddiesgirl21
Southampton

I am new to this so still learning and would like someone who can help teach me

I am only 18 so I’m young but I am eager to learn as I’m already quite kinky but would like to explore more

Blondelicousx
Southampton

I’m fun flirty looking for someone who can spoil their baby;)

I have a great personality if you get to know me more, maybe we’ll have something special:) If you know how to spoil your baby right then message me

Daddysgirl062
Southampton

I’m quite new to this so looking for someone who can help show me the ropes

I’m looking for someone caring but also can make me obedient as I can be a brat sometimes

DaphneXCharlton
Southampton

Are you the forbidden fruit???

I’m excited to try new things I’ve always dreamed of doing

StacyHill
Southampton

What you see is what you get really. I am not one to mince my words and I expec..

"What you see is what you get really. I am not one to mince my words and I expect the same from anyone I am talking to. Let me know what you want, no beating around the bush! Thank you very much!"

graciebella596
Southampton

Looking for a naughty threesome

I’m up for anything, anywhere, I love to party and get drunk

Kaz036
Southampton

Up for naughty messy dirty fun

Up for trying new things  and exploring more of my sexual desires

michelleallianie799
Southampton

Pretty lady on here, single never married on here looking for a soulmate.

Im Michelle single never married  on here looking for a soulmate. A man I can admire all time

Bub1980
Southampton

Don’t assume you know.. ask me!

Not looking for any drama, just want to be respected.

heavyme788
Southampton

Im staying in the Southampton area for a bit so guys in that area message me I w..

I'm very filthy. I want 3 or 4 guys to fuck me at the same time. I love cock in my mouth you can fuck any hole you like. So guys if your reading my profile get a couple of other guys and all of you cum inside me leaving me gaping and dripping

NaughtyFUNErika
Southampton

Im ERIKA and I am ready to lose control or take control--whiche ver Im in the..

I'm an open book, sometimes too open I been told, but I can be discreet.  I am looking for my playmate and a friendship. Lets talk and get to know each other and see

Elf1994
Southampton

Looking for a experienced dom willing to show me the ropes. Very little experien..

Gaming girl. Loves board games, festivals and live music. New to the whole seen and looking to find someone.

danielleelizab154
Southampton

Dipped my toes in sub/Dom punishment. Interested in exploring my submissive side..

29 yo looking for fun, something abit more exciting, couples would be fun, bi curious, adventurous, high pain threshold

Chxcolate
Southampton

You’re favourite milf. Spoil me

Some who can be a nice distraction. Who can make me laugh and spoil me

hotjuicymom
Southampton

Indian mom looking 4 discrete weekend meets

im seperated....I aml ooking to explore my submissive side discreetly. Looking for white Master who can accommodate me on weekends.

angelbent310
Southampton

With many years experienced as a Life Style Dominatrix, I dont think that your ..

It doesn’t have to be. It’s all about giving over control and trust to Me. Let Me show you the difference between pain and pleasurable pain, as well as the most exquisite humiliation and degradation.

xxthisdominaofyoursxx
Southampton

This Domina Will give you such a good time you know

Would you even do everything for your Goddess? it will never be a bad idea anyways

tr628
Southampton

Im looking for 2 males who are up for a bit of fun. Always wanted to try a thre..

Newly single. After a bit of fun. Enjoy most things in the bedroom. Always try something once

gem272
Southampton

Looking for friendship/hook up

Thick and feisty looking for a man who can handle that

tinybabyt13
Southampton

Bratty gym bunny looking for conversation and fun.

I’m a busy bee by day and always looking for some cute distractions. My favourite things in the world are my two cats and my local crossfit gym. I genuinely love meeting and talking to new people.

petal492
Southampton

I want to explore my submissive nature,limits and bdsm as I am new to this but h..

Shy friendly and love to learn new things. I'm a single woman. One who is autistic. Love to read and listen to music.

dee0265
Southampton

looking to explore my sexual side and unlock new adventures.

i am looking for easy to get on with individuals willing to try new things as well as patient teachers

imogenatkins
Southampton

I sell all types of kink friendly content, custom made content is something I wi..

I'm a 21 year old, 5ft5 female who loves all things naughty,
Feel free to come say hello. (No meet ups, online only, happy to prove I am.who I say I am)

SashaSays
Southampton

You may refer to me strictly as Goddess or Mistress only Here to be amused and ..

Those who can make me laugh, worship me in the form of gifts and be a good paypig shall be rewarded.

emelybu477
Southampton

I am outgoing, honest and good person who loves to be surrounded by likeminded p..

I like the outdoors as I lie to stay home. Hanging around the house getting my hands dirty in the yard. I love to entertain and  very concern about my wellbeing.

michelleallianie280
Southampton

Pretty lady on here, single never married looking for a soulmate.

Im Michelle, I love to sing am single never married looking for life partner. A man i can admire all time

Sassysandy69
Southampton

genuine honest fun romance looking for mt right

just want someone to respect me and take me for what i am

hay444
Southampton

Hope u can make me laugh and not b too serious

Hmmm dont think this sites for me lol I'm not here looking to just fuck seems that's wots this place is about , Iim only into black men too and theres not too many here it seems

ligaes01x
Southampton

Im open to almost any experience and am an open book so ask me anything. I enjo..

I am very new to all of this and I am naturally shy but warm up quickly. I'm very open to new experiences.

michellemcca294
Southampton

Good sense of humour and fun

Some wine to spend time with and maybe more   thanks

hies03
Southampton

Recently single romantic woman who is friendly

I love to rest, nature, walking and am looking for someone who knows how to make a woman happy with passion

lain512
Southampton

Getting old need some fun this looks good

I need to broaden my sex life , spice it up before it's to late , with your help

puminiki
Southampton

Have knowledge. Wanna teach and learn. Find friends to tlak about this.

Switch. Worst person for dom and sub because switches are playful.

Older than 40 is banded to write me. 30-40 will be analized before replay.

NaughtybutNice2020
Southampton

Looking for someone caring funny and willing to take myself and life to the limi..

I have a very big heart, willing to try anything once. The sky is the limit

BelieveinyourGoddessx
Southampton

Im just looking for someone who wants to explore there boundaries. x

If you're interested to keep in touch with me, please DM me to have a way to get contact with you. I'm looking forward to hear from you! x

nickylab803
Southampton

My master & I require some extras for my training.

I’m new to bdsm & need someone that’s happy to train me. I want to test & learn my boundaries & how far I can push them, but I need a good Dom to do this. R u up for the challenge?
I’m generally noisy in sexual encounters but can b quiet when really needed . Oh I’m also a bit of a squirter but I also cream if turned on enough.
My place isn’t free very often either so we’d need to make other arrangements.
I don’t want any time wasters that r only on here for basic sex either as I’m not up for that.

aurora261
Southampton

Sensual mistress Wants to play

Exploration
Stroking
Evolving
Spanking
Submissive
Unable to accommodate

stewedfruitc136
Southampton

Have a Master just want to learn more an please him.

Fair new. Just looking to learn more I have a master just want to educate myself a bit more.

michelleallianie374
Southampton

I am a cheerful, purposeful and active lady. I know how to love. I appreciate ho..

Im Michelle single never married on here looking for a soulmate a good man I can admire all time. I love to sing

petal482
Southampton

Fairly new to this. I want to explore my submissive side

Shy friendly and love to learn new things. I'm a single parent of two (young). One who is autistic. Love to read and listen to music.
I have a very stressful and busy life and only get free time on a sat. I have briefly explored playing and exploring bdsm and have enjoyed my submissive side. I would love to meet someone who would be willing to help me explore and be patient and kind. To help me to learn what things I like and dnt like. I know that I liked it when I was blindfolded and my wrists were tied up. I like being spanked and gently whipped with a fogger.

sarahwrap361
Southampton

Love sex ,only things I dont do so far extreme fetish

Wanting to find a man that wants a relationship fed up with one night stands. Dont want  50 plus guys and under 35