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Goddess Hillary
Chicago Illinois

A dominant professional mistress, let’s explore

Just a mistress who’s passionate about the lifestyle

J-Marie
Chicago Illinois

Financial Dominantrix

What makes me happy??

Letting me see what I can make you do...

Slippydom
Chicago Illinois

Hello there! Wanna have some fun?

I'm 25 years old, living in the Chicago region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 35.

Claubab888
Chicago Illinois

Im 32 years old, living in the Chicago region.

I'm 32 years old, living in the Chicago region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 38 and 89.

Mistress May
Chicago Illinois

Looking for a good boy to play with

I'm 24 years old, living in the Chicago region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 23 and 51.

Lilbit5031
Chicago Illinois

The new girl on the block! Very adventurous

The pleasure and arousal of a man being fucked and control

AlphaZendaya88
Chicago Illinois

Dominant seeking for a submissive

I am a natural leader, well experienced professional dom seeking for a submissive on here

Alpha jane
Chicago Illinois

Dominant seeking for a submissive

I am a natural leader, well experienced professional dom seeking for a submissive on here

Cleo56
Chicago Illinois

Empathetic Traveler Searching for a Kindred Spirit.

Open to try anything . I love animals and I love everything new and something I have never experienced before.

AffectionateLover249b9d
Chicago Illinois

Looking for someone who is perfectionist and likes to order stuff on me.

I’m a newby kinda don’t know what to expect but I like it when a someone orders me to do stuff

Miss Dom
Chicago Illinois

I just wanna be happy and make everyone around me happy.

I find fulfillment in making people happy, I can fulfill your desires if you're honest and loyal. I just want everybody to be happy

Ella
Chicago Illinois

It seems to me that a real man should be such that a girl feels confident. This ..

It seems to me that a real man should be such that a girl feels confident. This is a person who gives his word and always keeps it. It is very important to feel care, attention and, of course, understanding of each other.

Smith
Chicago Illinois

I’m here for fun and hookup ❤️❤️❤️

I’m available for hookup and I do sell my video also

Windycitygrl86
Chicago Illinois

58 busty female. Im insatiable, sensual, and submissive. Hit me up. I love to..

Likes: art, music, hiking, yoga,kayaking,craft beer, bourbon, deep conversation, and good times.
Interests: MF, MMF, FMF, gangbang, sub, anal play, nipple play,  DP

HonestSuperhero337ce8
Chicago Illinois

I WISH COLLAR A SUBMISSIVE ON HERE WHO IS HONEST AND SERIOUS

I like feminization, bondage,  chastity,  shemales,  panties/lingerie,  humiliation,  pegging,  anal,  alot of things really.
Don't like blood, or pain.

Lovememorealwaya
Chicago Illinois

Im 43 years old, living in the Chicago region.

Want a loyal submissive partner that will listen and obey me always

FriendlyRomantic17ab4b
Chicago Illinois

Im 30 years old, living in the Chicago region.

I'm 30 years old, living in the Chicago region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 99.

Joysexy40
Chicago Illinois

Im new here looking for someone serious here to meet in person

An experienced woman who wants to meet a man to spend the rest of her life with. I am gentle, kind and intelligent. I am used to achieving goals, but at the same time I can be weak and a good housewife. I believe in love and that I can love with all my heart

CaringGoddess98ed00
Chicago Illinois

m a full time goddess mistress seeking for a new sexy submissive slave husband b..

I am proud of who I am and have become in our community. I live and breath the lifestyle with a passion. I need my kink, I need to be able to train and teach my submissives and they are my  priority.

missyy
Chicago Illinois

A dominant woman whos hoping to explore the alternate BDSM lifestyle with a sub..

I'm a pretty lady who's just in love with the BDSM lifestyle. I'm a Dom and I hope to find a faithful sub who's desiring to enjoy the sweet pleasures and desires of this BDSM lifestyle; who'd kiss the ground I walk on.  I love bondage, role-playing, spanking. Let's bond.

Willyoubemine
Chicago Illinois

Pro Domme looking to find loyal and humble subs to humiliate, peg and wear my co..

Interested in willing subs who loves to be dominated and owned to serve me.

ThoughtfulBeauty
Chicago Illinois

It takes seconds to make good friends that last a life time

I’m here to turn your fetish desires into reality and your sexual desires fulfilled

sassyl399
Chicago Illinois

Love me a man with a fetish please come my way

Just here to please you babycome get to know me better

TitaniumTrinity
Chicago Illinois

Im a sub looking for a generous and understanding Daddy or Dom. Discretion nece..

I'm a loyal and open minded. I know when to obey and when to concede. And I'm a very loving person.

hav2323
Chicago Illinois

Looking for fun Easy going clean couple

European  Couple beginners with treesome fun and easy going

Moonstar963
Chicago Illinois

I’m ready, wet, horny……. Fuck me!!

I love to sweat and get dirt…. Yeah, yeah , fuck

jamiestarrmo502
Chicago Illinois

Sexy Jamie Starr is a pro switch that will drive you wild with her adorable mani..

Early 30s
Tiny, Tiny “spinner”
Short hair
Loves to switch up dynamics

alexisSD24
Chicago Illinois

I am fairly new to the dom and sub life, looking to explore and find someone who..

I am down to do anything not just in the bedroom but outside the bedroom as well

jessgi637
Chicago Illinois

I am single, with brown eyes and hairs, im 57 tall. i like going to beach , cam..

i'm a very loving and caring lady , i would love to meet a honest loving and caring man

bree005
Chicago Illinois

im new to this stuff but always thought about it . Let’s see what kinda magic we..

I’m young lovely and sweet , I’m an Capricorn . I’m out going and I have a good head on my shoulders . Just looking to networking and see what I can learn while having fun

Flo8121
Chicago Illinois

I am looking for someone to bond with and spend quality time with.

I’m open minded when it comes to trying new things.

polygirlout222
Chicago Illinois

Nerdy, Curvy Gal looking for fun.

Loving wife exploring ethical non monogamy with husband's blessing due to mismatched libidos. Looking for casual relationship with someone who I can both ride and talk to. Loves the MCU, basketball and horror movies.

Georg409Chicago
Chicago Illinois

Im an African lady,,Im a student

I'm for a good relationship,,,and finesse,,any good sugardaddy

BabyUSA
Chicago Illinois

Looking to get satisfied. Im in my sexual prime and am ready for fun!

Large thick penis is appreciated,  tongue that knows exactly what a woman wants.

arreonma715
Chicago Illinois

I’m 23. , a Libra, and just bored in my sex deprived relationship

I’m looking for some excitement and just some fun because why not

angelala799
Chicago Illinois

Im just a pretty young lady who wants to make friends and see were it will lea..

I can be myself when I am with you. Your idea of romance is dim lights, soft music, and just the two of us. Because you make me feel like I have never felt before. I can tell you anything, and you won't be shocked. Your undying faith is what keeps the flame of our love alive. You and me together, we can make magic. We're a perfect match. Thinking of you, fills me with a wonderful feeling. Your love gives me the feeling, that the best is still ahead. You never give up on me, and that's what keeps me going. You are simply irresistible. I love you because you bring the best out of me. Your terrific sense of humor. Everytime I look at you, my heart misses a beat. You're the one who holds the key to my heart. You always say what I need to hear. You have taught me the true meaning of love. Love is, what you mean to me - and you mean everything. You are my theme for a dream. I have had the time of my life and I owe it all to you.

MistressJanae
Chicago Illinois

Im a very interesting person. I could either be very aggressive or very sentime..

I'm becoming a registered nurse
I'm very intellectual & vocal.
I love eating and shopping

macklinl856
Chicago Illinois

Hi my name is hotpussgirl look for a good time

Black with brown hair and brown eye long hair with big boobs fat puss big ass love to roll play

TOXICJAZZY
Chicago Illinois

Looking for a bi-sexual male to have fun with me and my boyfriend.

Looking to just have fun! Into life and enjoying it.

Karma2121
Chicago Illinois

I am a new sub who would like to find the perfect dom that will help me with dis..

I want someone who can satisfy me both in and outside the bedroom. Someone who wants to learn my body as I want to learn theirs.

jamielacuel609
Chicago Illinois

Im dominate. Looking fir man or couple to dominate.

I am dominate goddess who is in need of new pets to worship my feet and please me. Stay on my goid side my pets

ChocolateMist
Chicago Illinois

Young, curvy, chocolate lady eager to explore my sexual spirituality

Nothing really interesting about me...yet. Hope that changes

daddypet11atgoogle
Chicago Illinois

Here for Erotic fun. I really love to travel. I can go up North or down South an..

Love everything outdoors. A real man knows how to satisfy a lady. my username means a lot, you can reach me on hangout with that.

ellenbarbarash724
Chicago Illinois

looking for a long term serious relationship

50 years old widowed , lost my husband in a car accident 4

franceslo563
Chicago Illinois

I am a sensitive, intelligent, passionate affectionate, loyal, witty, humor..

I am a sensitive,  intelligent, passionate affectionate,loyal, witty, humorous, efficient, creative, sensitive, caring, generous, communicative, sensual, charming, reliable,woman Having fun is very important to me and I am looking for someone with whom I can share life's experiences and grow together in faith and love with. My ideal match is someone who has a rest for life,someone who can have laugh and have fun but,and at the same time,he must be responsible.

BlowMyBubbles
Chicago Illinois

Summit at your own risk kink has no limits✨

I speak for myself, you only know what I allow you to know, but my pleasure is guaranteed, very outgoing and fun, trying new things excite me, I am not into summiting! I am into VERY open minded people

Sweetest2021
Chicago Illinois

Sweet Grul next door getting dirty. Ready to chat I’ve been board and waiting fo..

I’m funny, love to talk dirty, and hear myself moan. Looking for some to chat with judgement free.

Mixhmix
Chicago Illinois

I want to enjoy my youth and be used as a toy

I’m new and want to be trained to be your favorite toy. Make me submit to your c**k.

fireme005
Chicago Illinois

Submissive/Litt le BBW to play.

Workaholic needing to be taken care of after work. .