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BDSM Costa Mesa California

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BDSM Glossary

Let's expand on the term 'Chastity': Chastity: This term refers to a captivating form of erotic sexual denial or orgasm denial, where an individual is deliberately prevented from accessing or stimulating their genitals, except at the discretion of their partner. It's a thrilling game of control and submission, where the dominant partner holds the key to pleasure, deciding when and if the submissive is allowed release. Often, this control is exerted through the use of a chastity device—a specially designed device that physically prevents access to the genitals and is locked by the dominant partner. The sensation of being denied, of longing and desire building with each passing moment, can be intensely arousing for both parties involved. Chastity play can range from short-term denial sessions to long-term chastity arrangements, each offering its own unique blend of anticipation, frustration, and ultimately, satisfaction. Whether you're the one holding the key or the one eagerly awaiting release, chastity play offers a tantalizing journey into the depths of desire and control within the BDSM dynamic.

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Starfireisfire211
Costa Mesa California

Hi there, I go by star and I am here to make your day

I'm 24 years old, living in the Costa Mesa region.
I'm interested in meeting a couple or a woman or a man aged between 18 and 67.

nhay001
Costa Mesa California

Im a submissive thats very into bondage and BDSM.

Fun, playful but known to be very bratty. Looking for a Dom with a firm hand to help me explore my submissive side.

Gomez2398
Costa Mesa California

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