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BDSM in San Diego California

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BDSM Glossary

Dom-space refers to a psychological and emotional state that dominants may enter during BDSM scenes or play sessions. It is characterized by a heightened sense of control, power, and euphoria, often accompanied by an intensified perception of the scene and the sensations experienced within it. When a dominant enters Dom-space, they may experience a profound sense of focus, clarity, and empowerment. Their senses become heightened, allowing them to fully immerse themselves in the role they are playing and the dynamics of the scene. This heightened awareness enables dominants to anticipate their submissive's needs and desires more effectively, enhancing the overall experience for both parties. In Dom-space, dominants may also experience an increase in confidence and assertiveness, allowing them to assert their control more firmly and confidently. They may feel a sense of liberation from societal norms and expectations, embracing their dominant role with a sense of pride and fulfillment. It's important to note that Dom-space can vary in intensity and duration from person to person and from scene to scene. Some dominants may enter Dom-space quickly and easily, while others may require more time and effort to reach that state. Additionally, not all dominants experience Dom-space in the same way, and some may not experience it at all. Overall, Dom-space is a natural and often exhilarating aspect of BDSM play for dominants, allowing them to fully embrace their dominant identity and explore the depths of power and control within a consensual and mutually satisfying dynamic.

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IndependentSweete22f
San Diego California

28 year old female who likes to degrade men through written word.

I have been loving the Dom lifestyle for years, and can’t wait to share that with you!

Elaine
San Diego California

I am a fun loving freak in her 20’s and I love to play a lot . So let’s have som..

I am a fun loving freak in her 20’s and I love to play a lot . So let’s have some fun.

I’m also into yoga and photography.

MistressRylee
San Diego California

Its about gaining your trust and your respect, so youll let me exert my will o..

Consent is not a sign of weakness; it is a sign of strength and self-respect.

AmaE508
San Diego California

I’m looking for a submissive that like to play and also serve me.

I'm 64 years old, living in the San Diego region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 58 and 68.
I'm White / Caucasian with a Slim body shape

Janey
San Diego California

The unholy trinity of My wit, skill and ferocity will have you on your hands and..

I'm Janey  but you have no choice but to call me Mistress. I'm a professional Dominatrix of six years practicing My craft in "Brisbane". I prefer an organic and genuine encounter over providing you with a menu to choose from, however here is a shortened list of my skilled abilities: Latex fetish & worship, Bondage (chains, ropes, leather, plastic etc) Foot fetish/Foot worship etc.

dmati309
San Diego California

Eat out more often! I mean at a restaurant! Dirty minded you lol!

I'm crazy dont try to take advantage or get money from me...

queenbe848
San Diego California

I just want a man to fuck daily

I'm a horny #milf who loves to vibe my pussy all day

Gbabyy23
San Diego California

I’m looking for something exciting.

I’m looking to experiment. I want to fulfill my fantasies

ssuttb226
San Diego California

I have a wonderful viewpoint on life.

Seeking for someone who are down to anything and seeking actions here.

Aiwilliam154
San Diego California

Im here for a good time, and fun.

Im newer to the community. And im super willing to learn

garciayad883
San Diego California

Sabrosona asme lo que quieras cuando quieras

Soy soltera busco una pero nada cerio por lo pronto

IntoYouLikeATrain
San Diego California

I’m definitely more submissive but every now and then I want to be in charge.

Someone that will make me feel safe but anxious. Someone that will put me in my place but gives me what I want.

Jayymotaa
San Diego California

First timer and I need to get dominated

Milf bbw single looking for hook ups friends with benefits

Livlo727
San Diego California

I’m looking for someone to dominate sexually and financially

I want to act out my wildest fantasies for the first time

vmariepear113
San Diego California

I’m looking for my forever Daddy!

I’m not into BS. If you’re not really a dom don’t text me don’t even waste your time. I’ll know if your faking I’ve been a sub for six years. Have been in one serious relationship. It ended to me moving. I have lots of experience but I’m good for retraining. Also if you’re a nude hungry dom don’t message me either. Get a vanilla girl for that. BDSM is not about dominating a girl to get nudes. It’s about trading, trust, loyalty, passion and becoming one. It’s such an intimate relationship most don’t understand. I don’t have many limits. I’m and An** slut. I love being fucked till I pass out. I love being bonded, gagged, blindfold, but those are easy. I’m also a pain slut. I love nipple clamps. I love being whipped with a belt. Make it hurt to sit. Just cuz I cry doesn’t mean I want you to stop. It means it’s working. I guarantee I’ll be wet afterwards and it makes it that much better to be fucked after, the sting of my ass when I’m in doggy as you touch it and fuck me. Ask for more.

lindamar756
San Diego California

Im at my prime and ready to live. Love hanging out with good people who enjoy li..

Funny, loving,caring..I love people, laughter and and enjoying life to the fullest.

Littlewyntermariexo
San Diego California

New to a lot. Looking to learn.

Sweet and eager to please. Not sure entirely what I want or don’t want.

luleigh737
San Diego California

I’m looking for a dominant partner to help me explore my submissive side

I am looking for friends also and want to see what happens next

larosawat923
San Diego California

No judgment, no drama, good vibes only... all fun.

Mmm... I enjoy group sex the most... I love to hear a playmate orgasm... pls don't be quiet.

madamer731
San Diego California

Looking for long term & no hookups.

Married, San Diego Native. Have 1 LTR so far