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24/7: A Relationship of Continuous Protocol In the realm of BDSM, the term '24/7' refers to a type of relationship dynamic where protocols and power exchanges are in place continuously, both inside and outside of scenes. Unlike traditional relationships, where roles may fluctuate or be limited to certain times or activities, a 24/7 BDSM relationship involves a constant exchange of power, with defined roles for each partner that extend beyond the bedroom. In a 24/7 BDSM relationship, the dominant partner typically maintains control over the submissive partner in various aspects of their life, including but not limited to household chores, decision-making, and even attire. This level of commitment and intensity requires a high degree of trust, communication, and compatibility between both parties. For those involved in a 24/7 BDSM dynamic, the power exchange is not just a sexual role-play; it is a way of life that permeates every aspect of their existence. It's about mutual understanding, respect, and fulfillment of each partner's needs and desires. Whether it's through rituals, protocols, or daily tasks, the power dynamics of a 24/7 relationship provide structure, guidance, and ultimately, a profound sense of connection and fulfillment for those involved.

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Behonest011
San Francisco California

Honey looking for someone who is honest and loyal..

I am on here to search for the right man who is looking for a serious
and Commitment in relationship that will someday lead to something special in future and also willing to share him love,ideas with me as well being honest and loyal to each other and i will also do the same thing to him return…

Fstrdy
San Francisco California

The unholy trinity of My wit, skill and ferocity will have you on your hands and..

I'm 32 years old, living in the San Francisco region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 18 and 76.

Queen Melanie
San Francisco California

Are you ready? Show me, Great memories ahead

I enjoy being worshipped and much more, enjoy the finer things

Mitress_shelygina
San Francisco California

However a big fantasy of mine is to sort of control a sub from a distance. Be th..

I'm 29 years old, living in the San Francisco region.
I'm interested in meeting a man aged between 30 and 96.

Mistress Charlotte
San Francisco California

Im a simple Minded Mistress, looking to explore a desirable experience with a s..

I'm all about making you enjoy every experience you have wish to have in your secret place.. I'm specialized in Pegging,Ass Spanking, Chastity with lot more..I Assure you would enjoy every experience with me as your favorite Dom.

Lilly santos
San Francisco California

The unholy trinity of My wit, skill and ferocity will have you on your hands and..

I'm lilly santos but you have no choice but to call me Mistress. I'm a professional Dominatrix of six years practicing My craft in "Brisbane". I prefer an organic and genuine encounter over providing you with a menu to choose from, however here is a shortened list of my skilled abilities: Latex fetish & worship, Bondage (chains, ropes, leather, plastic etc) Foot fetish/Foot worship etc.

Elenacarly
San Francisco California

Am a young nasty bachelor looking for older men to get intimate

Am looking for older men to satisfy my urge to get spanked by and do naughty stuff together

Mistress444
San Francisco California

I’m looking a long term submissive I’m an active dominant for 13 years I’m a goo..

I’m seeking for sub whom whom is ready to worship me

Franky
San Francisco California

I can go beyond my limits to be satisfied ✨

The world doesn’t not revolve around you alone, there is always something new to explore ✨✨

SexyTricia4real
San Francisco California

Looking for someone who can match my open-minded, kinky, and adventurous spirit...

I'm an open-minded, fun-loving individual who is looking for someone who can match my adventurous spirit. I'm not afraid to try new things and explore new experiences, and I'm looking for someone who is just as crazy and spontaneous as I am. Life is too short to be boring, so let's make the most of it and create some unforgettable memories. If you think you can keep up, message me and let's see where the night takes us

SassyMistress899
San Francisco California

Sassy Dom looking for a submissive

I don’t talk too much,let’s just get down with it. Xxx

OneAlena
San Francisco California

I am a dom looking for an obedient sub to serve

I am The Mistress , In your wildest desires I come to explore and share in your most deepest kinkiest version. Be pleasure ready x

Bernice1
San Francisco California

She is the perfect woman. Polite, honest and kind... but with a very dirty mind

Let's explore our deepest desires subbie and have that fun we crave for so badly

Glamorousmistress
San Francisco California

Wanna explore my fantasies and fetish with you. I am in need of a submissive ma..

I’m into pegging
Bdsm
Cross dressing
Seduction
Breast fetish
Feet fetish

Bdsm-spanking, flogging caning cbt anal play figging fisting pegging punishment enemas catheter insertion ass and pussy eating and breast worship. I would allow you do all of this to me.

lizgrob94
San Francisco California

DBZ, My Hero, smash, Mario kart, monster Hunter, and long walks on the beach! A ..

Looking for people to hangout and play games and watch anime with. And maybe   even go out once in awhile. I'm a little shy when I first meet people but I'll start to warm up and get kinda goofy once we're talking.

prettykatrina502
San Francisco California

I want to have my body used for ur personal pleasure

I want some to use me and use me and act like they own my holes  putting watever they want in them maybe fuck my ass with a carrot or broom handle

marielagabr894
San Francisco California

Mary aun no tengo una idea exacta

Soy una persona muy sola y con ganas de experimentar nuevas cosas

hyan92
San Francisco California

Looking the mr right to love and cherish

My life is full of joy and laughter that I forgot could exist

plo741
San Francisco California

Looking for someone who can satisfy me xx

I want to dominate your limits , and punish you xxx

JesSYg089
San Francisco California

I’m looking to make a connection with an open minded man and woman willing to ha..

I am very new to all of this and I am naturally shy but warm up quickly. I'm very open to new experiences. I'm looking to find emotional connections and eventually something.

Nati333
San Francisco California

Looking for a paypig !you deserve to be treated as I wish

College girl :)looking to dominate you and make you do as I wish

eliza593
San Francisco California

I need it so bad. Looking for the one who can take it from me.

I have never found an assertive male who will take control in the bedroom. I know they have to be out there.

lave627
San Francisco California

Hey am lave a here for hookup lets suck and fuck each other

I like sucking and I like a man giving me doggy or head

lisapr159
San Francisco California

experienced femdom seeking submissive men who want to be humiliated: use rolepla..

im fun and communicate well and am open to different kinks

goaskalice222
San Francisco California

if you like to be dominated by a strong woman, message me ;)

i’m looking for a man to dominate. if you like being called names and being degraded, i’m your girl.

bxldie
San Francisco California

looking to be taken care of, and someone to take my bratty submissive self

decently funny, love music, hardworking, articulate and pessimistic

dah749
San Francisco California

Profile in the works. Stay tuned;)

Pleaser at heart . Still finding out what makes me tick.

oceanbeechsweetz
San Francisco California

PippingHottt ( . )( . )<~~~

I want to be worshiped and Fucked. ** I Need that nice cock...!**

rozaptor
San Francisco California

Nothing Serious, Nothing Personal, Just Casual.

Not looking for anything serious.
Down for a good time.

surel810
San Francisco California

I want to explore and enjoy my life

I enjoy the outdoors and like to hike, bike, boat, or anything that lets me enjoy the day. That may just be relaxing in the yard, poolside, or the patio of a local eatery.  I like to hike the local trails and I also spend time in the cool areas like country side, hiking, quading, kayaking, exploring,. I'm responsible, confident and respectful, I still try to help the needy. I have a good heart, a good career, believe in chivalry and have faith. I'm grateful for my life and try to have fun no matter what I'm doing. (I'm also a pretty good cook.) I’m probably most comfortable at home with a glass of wine in my hand and my favorite shows and movies on my TV.

triszna824
San Francisco California

Im looking for a man whos ho est caring , down to earth that is willing to men..

Looking for a man to love and to honor more as keeping me on the right path . I have alot going for me I'm needing a push to follow through. I procrastinate in certain areas that I need not to. I'm very smart, caring, social, but can be a bratt. At work I'm the boss. But I must mind someone to keep me right. I'm not lazy , very clean, I guess putting myself down is my problem. Failing myself. They say to mention 5 things about myself and they are, like to learn, hard on myself, smart, caring, and affectionate. Spontaneous I am. So let's just face facts. Fully vaccinated.. Enjoy comedy, sort of a nerd., like card games

Stonergirl9800
San Francisco California

Findom Looking for men (:

Let’s get to know each other all subs are welcome !

VoodooDoll27
San Francisco California

A perfect mix of intellect and emotion

Looking for a long term arrangement with someone who respects and values me and will also aid with some of my regular expenses

yourfavamazon
San Francisco California

A naturally dominant woman looking for a long term sub.

I'm 6'5, 6'10 in heels. I weigh about 280 and I'm quite strong. A full figured woman.

stephdn69
San Francisco California

I love dominant women and submissive men

Just trying to live my life according to Megan Thee Stallion

evelyne581
San Francisco California

I’m Evelyn I’m free today and want some kinky and nasty sex right now, Host or T..

Am a easy going person
Fun to chat with
I’m available for sex hookup both

milesand204
San Francisco California

This straight up gets his mind wandering to fantasy scenarios all about you. You..

Just trying to make friends for now and see where it goes
I'm not trying to rush things if you're just going to ask me to hangout right away don't bother..
I'll be nice to you if you'll be nice to me

choichanks
San Francisco California

Cuddles/Listene r Daddy/Mommy Pet/Puppy/Kitty Moody needy brat needs soft cons..

Chubby
Sexually experienced but not in BDSM community
Profession is a nurse